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Notes from a Writer on Retreat! 7 (Choose to use the time to meet your goal).

When is the write time? How about now. 

Well, my friends, the first few hours of this 3 day writing retreat have been a learning curve already. In my last update I wrote about finding balance when absorbing oneself in a creative project. However, I also need to qualify that with ensuring that in seeking balance we don’t forget our purpose, especially when our ‘set aside time’ is for a short duration, such as three days like mine.

I took a short break – I am now fed, watered, and a little rested. The sun is shining (which is not the most common occurrence where I live), the thought of sitting in the park or taking photos is appealing to me. I have dishes needing done, tidying up to do, exercise that I wanted to do, and my other creative projects to dip into. 

I am more than half way towards meeting my goal of 3,500 words for today. And yet…

During my short ‘down time’ while looking up writing retreat vlogs on YouTube, I came across one in which a young woman and her writer friend were on a 4 day retreat, and she failed to meet her goals, partly because she took breaks and treated herself to a refreshing visit to the nearby beach when she had only made inroads towards meeting her writing goals. She regretted not focusing on accomplishing her daily goal before treating herself to a longer leisure time. 

It got me to thinking just how important writing is to me, and how I don’t get focused time to do it often, and one of my goals / dreams since childhood has been to be a novelist, and now it is at least to write the one novel that has been birthed in my soul through some deep, painful and inspiring experiences that if I don’t write it, part of my ‘life purpose’ would have remained unfulfilled. By the grace of God I will accomplish the dream put upon my heart.

So I need to remind myself that while it is good, healthy and desirable to take breaks and find balance, the sun will shine another day, I will definitely spend time in the park again, the dishes will be washed and the house tidied and other little creative projects done, and I will find and make time to exercise and keep well. 

But for now, I will choose to honour the gift of this time and the purpose I have chosen for this time and get back to writing, and enjoying doing what I love. 

Which leads me to ask you, is there something, some dream, goal or project, however modest you might think it seems, that you would like to accomplish? And if so, are you giving it the time, care and attention you feel it deserves? Or are other distractions, priorities or tasks that can wait for another moment or another day keeping you from accomplishing your goal? 

Well, that’s my ‘post-break’ update, and as it’s 1.33pm, I am going to get back to it. 

Let’s stay on course, and accomplish our goals! 🙂

P.S. Apologies that these notes are fairly ‘rushed’ updates, I spend more time crafting the prose in my novel while here I can just share as things come to mind, and I am appreciative of that. Thanks for reading 🙂

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Staying Motivated…

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I’m guessing if you’re reading this blog post, that you may be looking for a little nudge in the right direction for plans or projects that you have either started or hope to embark upon. 

Seeking out motivation in itself is a good start. But how do you keep on going, or take those first steps to action, especially if the task or tasks ahead seem a bit daunting and overwhelming to you?

One of the key elements to finding and maintaining motivation is to strategize. Your goal or goals may be many and varied. Perhaps you are seeking motivation to tackle a home project such as decluttering, reorganising, renovating or tidying in some way. Maybe you are thinking more along the lines of project management, planning and organising an event, going on holiday, raising money for charity, hosting a party, meal planning and preparation, writing a book, a blog or pursuing a hobby. Whatever it is that you would like to take on or persevere with, strategizing is a key element to any such endeavour. 

I have come up with the following ideas to help both you and me to get started and keep going! I hope you find them useful 🙂 

S – tart with having an idea in mind of what you want to do, create, pursue, achieve or accomplish.

T – ake note of the key elements that this endeavour will entail. Initially you may have to use quite ‘broad brushstrokes’ to get an idea of the main elements to your project, but then break things down into smaller, specific, more manageable steps, and make sure to write them down as this really does help the brain to process and work in stages and will help enable you to overcome any feelings of being overwhelmed or out of your depth. You can do it! 🙂

R – efine these steps as you get a clearer idea of the practicalities of your pursuit, and keep refining these as you continue. And always write it down (preferably in one place)! 🙂 This is key. If you are feeling a little more advanced and are getting to know your own ways of working better, then add timescales and ‘deadlines’ to work towards that you know are achievable, allowing a bit of leeway for other things that might unexpectedly encroach upon your time.

A – ctively pursue inspiration and seek to learn from others who may have more experience or a different way of looking at things. The internet makes this so much easier to do, and you will never be short of places to find motivation. But look beyond the internet as well – talk to people, research in other ways, explore, be creative!

T – ake time out for yourself. The earlier stages of breaking down your main goal into smaller, more manageable steps and ‘mini goals’ will hopefully have given you a sense of accomplishment and an ability to enjoy the process and not just think about the end result that you are aiming for. These mini goals might be something small such as making a list, taking inventory, writing a plan, or making a small purchase to help with the project. ‘Tick’ these off along the way, or record them as you go, this way you will be able to see progress. And if or when you begin to feel overwhelmed, unclear as to what to do next, or simply tired or uninspired, then just take a break. Take time out, do something relaxing that you enjoy, and then go back over the earlier steps to bring you back into a more motivated frame of mind which will help you to feel more energised and refreshed to tackle the next steps with greater clarity, focus and determination.

E – njoy what you are doing! Be mindful of the process, remind yourself why this is important to you, think about the opportunity you have at hand, be grateful, and cheerful as you do each small task in your pursuit of your greater goal or goals.

G – ive something back. There are so many ways that you can find of doing this as you pursue your own projects. For example, if you are doing a decluttering project at home, perhaps you can give some things away to people less fortunate who may be able to make use of what you no longer need, or what you have not made use of for a while. Whatever your endeavour, you can also give back or ‘pay it forward’ by way of sharing advice, the experience of what you have learned along the way, and seek to help someone else who may be on a similar journey. You can blog about your experiences, talk to and encourage other people, give your time, or give to others opportunities, something you have created, or the gift of your company. If you have been working towards a tidy home, maybe you can share with others by having a friend over. If you are making something maybe crafts, knitting, artwork, maybe you can give some of these as gifts, raise money for charity, or teach someone your skills. If you are learning to cook, share your food with someone. If you are skydiving, share your expertise, fundraise, or…well….the sky is the limit!! 😉

I – nspire others. You uniquely can do this in a way that no one else can….and I don’t have a ‘formula’ for how you can be your amazing, inspirational self – you just do your thing, friend! 🙂

Z – ealously pursue excellence in each task you do, be it great or small. And do it with all your heart, being thankful that you are able to do what you do in the first place.

E – ndeavour to continue your learning, growing, goal setting and sharing with excellence and passion which will be a blessing not only to yourself but to those around you and further afield who your life may touch.

Much love. xx